As a parent, I’ve gone above and beyond for birthday parties. I mean seriously almost in tears overwhelmed to make sure everything was PERFECT. I’ve spent tons of money on decorations and huge cakes and tons of food for EVERYONE. BUT one thing I would forget is that as long as Brodie had fun it’s a win! No matter how good the food is, or if there’s decorations, or if a ton of people come. If he’s having fun then everything was perfect no matter how many imperfections I saw.

This year due to baseball schedules and other events, I waited until the last minute to book his birthday party. He wanted to do Altitude in Lake Charles, which is perfect for me. Show up, bring cake and stay out of their way because they do it all. I literally booked it the Tuesday before his birthday on Saturday. So of course I scramble to invite all of our family and panic to make sure I don’t forget anyone because lord knows you don’t forget to invite family members or you’ll never hear the end. Well I’m the mix of that, mom of the year forgets to notify any moms of Brodie’s friends. I knew a lot of them were gone for baseball, but his friends from school, friends we have, etc I totally forgot!! As I’m pulling into Altitude I realize I haven’t invited a soul really! Then panicky mom kicks in. Of course now I’m worried he won’t have any friends to jump with and my fear was right. One of his cousins came and a lot of our family was there, but no other kiddos. St the end of the day Brodie still has an incredible time and even said it was his favorite birthday. They are all his favorite, but I’ll take it!

That little bit of relief knowing he had a blast. Spend the time to have them a party. Even if it’s the smallest party! Just something to honor them and make them feel special for the day. It means the most to them!!

And moms don’t worry about all the flashy stuff. Birthdays aren’t for anyone else, but the birthday kiddo!