Many of you have probably heard this saying or even said it. But here I am with the real tea…

Something that I’ve seen and genuinely bothers me is that too many people are SUPER OPEN about “spilling the tea”. Especially about topics, issues, drama that doesn’t pertain to or involve them. I can say there’s times I’ve been guilty and honestly there’s not a single person out there that can confidently say they haven’t been this person. BUT one thing you can do is grow from that. Don’t be the tea spiller, sis. The only tea you need in your life is loaded teas and good southern sweet tea!

It’s easy to get caught up in the drama and all the gossip and wanting to know who’s doing what and what’s happening. But when you really look at the big picture, all of that is none of your business unless it involves you. And ultimately, there’s always 3 sides to every story. His, hers and the truth (or party 1, party 2 and the truth, etc. – you get what I mean). Always getting caught up in “what’s going on” doesn’t bode well for you. The less drama and gossip you let into your life the simpler your life will be.

The funny thing is, people don’t need to know all the drama that’s going on in you life. When you open up your entire life to people, you leave yourself vulnerable to the outside world. The less you share with people, the less you have people trying to get in your business. Same goes for the less you involve yourself in other peoples drama, the less likely you are to get drug into it.

A drama free life is the best life. AND that’s the real tea, sis. Please excuse me while I go drink a loaded tea.